The View from a Drawbridge

The random musings of a bridgetender with entirely too much time on her hands.

The people of Ukraine are on my mind a lot these days. We Americans have no idea what they are going through, and likely never will. Most of us can’t be bothered to care. And it shows.

Imagine this. You’re sitting in your living room, doing your thing, minding your own business, harming no one, when you hear explosions in the distance. And those explosions come closer and closer and closer. You look out the window and see the images below (which are actual photos of what is going on in Ukraine even as you read this.)

As you realize that there are people coming who want to kill you, you give up your entire life in an instant. You know you won’t be going to work tomorrow, dropping the kids off at school, visiting the local market, or returning books to the public library. All these things, your routine, your method of living, are gone.

Your hierarchy of needs gets stripped down to the basics. How will I get food and water? How do we stay warm once the electricity goes out? How will I keep my family safe? What about all the other loved ones who are scattered throughout the country? How do I gain access to my money? What do I do about my dog?

You do have a few options. You could evacuate. This would mean leaving behind your home and all your possessions to GTFO. And odds are there will be looting and bombing and you’ll lose everything. That, and many of the roads are closed. The airport is definitely closed. And where will you go and what will you do if you have to abandon your job?

You could also sign up to defend this beloved country of yours, with its government that you helped elect. But you’ve never held a gun in your life. And your enemy is about 1000 times more equipped than your country could ever hope to be. No other countries are willing to step in and help you out. Deep down, you know it’s just a matter of time before your world is occupied by an invader that wants you dead, and nothing will ever be the same again.

Of course, you could choose to stand by and do nothing and hope you aren’t killed, and hope your home remains intact. Hope you’re not tortured. Hope you don’t starve. Hope you wake up and find that this is all a bad dream.

No matter what you decide to do, this is bigger than you. It’s beyond your control. That’s it. You’re done. Just like that.

Meanwhile, we Americans sit in front of our televisions, secure in the knowledge that we don’t share a border with a country that’s more powerful than we are, and it’s a safe bet that we never will. We’re also pretty confident that tanks will never roll past our houses, and if we hear an explosion in the distance, it’s most likely a transformer that was struck by lightning, or a pesky teenager shooting off illegal fireworks.

Most of us will never be surrounded by total strangers who are intent upon our demise. With a few rare and horrifying exceptions, no one is trying to kill us at all. Our democracy may be circling the drain, but that’s our own doing. In fact, when there actually is an insurrection in an attempt to overthrow our elected government, most of us can’t be bothered to take it seriously. It feels like a mere gnat that is jumping around at the periphery of our vision. A nuisance. We’re just too big to fail. So the perpetrators of that insurrection don’t even get a slap on the hand, despite all the footage of the violence, destruction, and death.

The odds are pretty darned excellent that the majority of us will never have to leave our entire lives in the dust with no notice whatsoever. The majority of us will not have to dig foxholes and hunker down and prepare to kill another human being for the first time in our lives.

Our biggest concern is how inconvenienced we are by the concept of wearing masks and getting vaccinations so that our loved ones might survive. Many of us can’t be bothered to make that sacrifice. Oh, no. We’re too busy anxiously awaiting the results of the fantasy football game we’re engaged in. We can’t raise our eyes from Wordle long enough to even open the door when the neighbor comes by to borrow jumper cables. We don’t even know their name. Don’t know, don’t care.

Do I think this blog post will make a difference? Not at all. I write it in hopes that some future historian might stumble upon it and realize that we did see what was happening. We just couldn’t suffer the massive inconvienience of doing anything about it. Shame on us.

Relatively speaking, the average American is so fat with entitlement that they could probably make foie gras from their own livers. But I suspect that it wouldn’t taste very good.

9 thoughts on “We. Are. CLUELESS.

  1. Lyn says:

    Some of us have been paying attention. I’ve been following this for weeks knowing that Putin was setting the scene for this invasion. Who knows how long he’s been planning this or how far he’s willing to go to crush those who strive for the freedoms that democracy provides. Been crying for those in his crosshairs right now. (Respect for Zelensky.) Many Ukrainians are staying behind to fight for their country and those freedoms.

    Least we can do is pay attention and wear yellow and blue to show support. There are rallies of support for Ukraine, and protests against Putin, cropping up here. Please, all Americans who can, put out the effort to show up. I fear for the future of democracy as it’s being tested and attacked on many levels throughout the world and here in the U.S. We’re supposed to be a beacon of hope for freedom, an inspiration for others to democratize, yet what you write is sadly, tragically true. Putin won’t be the only greedy criminal to take advantage of the negative messages our social-political divisions and failures send. Let’s not forget that he’s using our social media, sowing hate and discord, in hopes of weakening democracy by division. His playbook relies heavily on the ‘divide and conquer’ method. One of it’s by-products is the indifference we are seeing here. I want to scream at my indifferent, fellow citizens to WAKE THE F UP. Nothing is more important than our responsibility to secure fair and equal freedom for all. Don’t be so certain that the bombs won’t fall in our own back yards.

    1. Karen Nordyke says:

      Thank you! Perfectly said.

    2. Thank you for your well written (as usual) comment! I would also like to encourage people to see if there is a Ukrainian Church in their area, and offer any support that you can. At the very least, bring them flowers. We need to show solidarity.

      1. Lyn says:

        Maybe you can compile a few lists of ways and resources to support Ukraine and democracy socially and politically. I’m sure there are many who might take positive action if they had guidance. Not everyone has the experiences we’ve had in being activists. For first timers who have begun by supporting Ukraine, let’s inspire them to expand their efforts to continue fighting for democracy. Don’t forget to add, voting against those who praise or support Putin and threaten democracies, to your list. Let’s also support Russian citizen protesters who have stood up to him. There’s so many ways we can, and should, support and strengthen democracy and you excel at creating lists.

      2. What an excellent idea! I’ll look into it.

  2. Karen Nordyke says:

    Beautiful, raw, heartfelt truth. I’ve been alone with these same thought all week. While Trump fights to keep his secret records. While people are attacking our airline staff. While, like magic, everything is opening back up with no masks required! Many people think they have won against the mask mandates. They think they’ve beat CV19. They’re not even in the wheelhouse of knowing that without our country in existence, that they’ll never need another mask, vaccine, or flight to catch. I truly am so full of hate right now for those idiots that have made this pandemic more of a problem than it had to be. I HATE Putin now and from the day he became the Hitler that he is. I hate China for being on his side. Children dying! Mommies and Daddies going to war with paintball guns to fight against bombs. I’m terrified for my children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. All but 3 of them are within the drafting age. I’m devastated—for us ALL! 😭🟦🟨🟦🟨🇺🇸

    1. I agree with everything you said 100 percent. I would urge you, though, to not expend too much energy on the hatred. You will need that energy in the coming weeks and months to support your family, share information, and fight for justice. Holding you and your family in my heart at this trying time. If you know of any ways for us to support Ukraine directly (And by that I mean so that the funds don’t get filtered through a lot of administrators before the final pennies reach the people in need), please let us know.

  3. Lyn says:

    Right after I posted my comment about compiling lists, this popped up in my in box: https://www.npr.org/2022/02/25/1082992947/ukraine-support-help

    1. Perfect! You found it! Anything NPR suggests I would highly suggest myself. They always do their homework. So yes, everyone, consult this list!

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