Tag: confidence

  • A Conversation with My Dentist

    A Conversation with My Dentist

    “Hi Doc! What’s your favorite color?”

  • How the Patriarchy Plays Out on Female Bodies

    Women must conform.

  • þetta reddast

    Everything will turn out okay.

  • Inadequate to the Task

    I often worry that I’m not saying the right thing.

  • The Ice Cream Paradox

    Coffee ice cream is my kryptonite.

  • Do It Yourself

    So yeah, this happened: I got dressed in grubby clothes, complete with an extra t-shirt to cover my hair, and a face mask and safety glasses and gloves, and I dragged my fat self under my house. Mission: installing insulation on the sub-floor. I think it’s important to know one’s house from top to bottom,…

  • I’m Not Buying It

    When I was a little girl, some well-meaning adult, who clearly didn’t know me at all, bought me a doll. I hope she didn’t spend too much money on it, because as soon as she left the house it got stuffed in the back of my closet, never to be seen again. I didn’t play…

  • Lack vs. Abundance

    There is an interesting human spectrum that tells you a great deal about people. I call it the generosity spectrum. But it also has a great deal to do with trust, confidence, kindness, and a sense of karma. At one extreme, you have people who are so wide open that they put themselves at risk.…

  • Feeling Helpless

    I’ve always admired people who have a strong sense of faith. Whether that translates into religious belief or just an unshakable sense that everything’s going to be all right, it’s just not something that I possess as a general rule. Most of the time that’s fine. The only time it’s bad is when things are…

  • A Shout Out to Deadbeat Dads

    My parents got divorced when I was three months old. I never met my father. I did not receive a single Christmas or birthday card, photograph or visit, in my entire life. He paid not one penny of child support. People used to ask me if I missed my father. My stock response was, “How…