Donating Yourself

Times are tough and there’s so much need out there that it can be overwhelming. But it’s understandable when people can’t make financial donations. I for one am struggling to make ends meet. But there are so many other ways to help.

Here are some ways you can give of yourself, show the world how wonderful you are, and improve the lives of others without spending a dime, and if you need added incentive, in many cases you can write these donations off on your taxes.

  • Become a marrow donor. If you’re between the ages of 18 and 44, a simple cheek swab will get you registered, and if you become a match it could save someone’s life. Go here to order a registration kit.
  • Become a cord blood donor. Are you pregnant? Donating your baby’s cord blood after birth does not put you or your child at risk and could save someone’s life. Talk to your doctor and find out if your hospital participates in this program before your child is born. For more information, go here.
  • Donate your used clothing and furniture. It breaks my heart to see useable items on the curb on trash day when there are so many organizations who would be happy to take them off your hands. Many will even come and pick it up from you.
  • Donate your used car. There are a lot of organizations that will take your used car. Here’s a site that can connect you to various charitable organizations, but personally, I plan to donate my car to National Public Radio when the time comes.
  • Volunteer. Many organizations in your community could use your help. Here’s a website that can help you find those opportunities.
  • Give someone a micro-loan. I can’t say enough about In a nutshell, loan 25 dollars, change someone’s life, get paid back, and hopefully do it again. What have you got to lose? Not one single penny, that’s what.
  • Help a neighbor. If you have a neighbor who is sick or elderly or disabled or a single parent, they could no doubt use your help. Whether it’s shoveling snow, running an errand, doing home repair or mowing the lawn, there are any number of things you could do to make their lives easier.
  • Donate blood. Another free opportunity to save a life! Imagine that. Go here to find the blood bank nearest you.
  • Freecycle. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Rather than filling the landfill with your perfectly usable but no longer wanted items, advertise them here on your local freecycle network. This is a great way to pick up things that other people are giving away as well!
  • Spread the word. Do you know of a way for people to save money or live healthier or safer lives? Don’t keep this information to yourself. Share it. Facebook it. Tweet it. Whatever it takes to share this with others. Knowledge is power.
  • Donate your hair. Planning to cut more than 10 inches of your hair off? Don’t let it go to waste! There are organizations that will make wigs for people who have cancer or alopecia. I don’t want to give any one organization special treatment, so simply google “hair donation” and choose the one you like best.
  • Listen. Sometimes all someone needs to turn their day around is someone willing to listen to them. Really hear them. That’s a skill. Please practice it.
  • Participate in Neighborhood Watch. Help keep your neighborhood safe the RIGHT way, with an organization that does not advocate vigilante behavior. Google Neighborhood Watch to learn more.
  • Be a mentor. Share your knowledge and expertise with someone who would benefit from it. Learn more about this here.
  • Recycle. Think of this as volunteering for the planet.
  • Report abuse and other crimes when you see them. If you witness domestic violence or any other crime, speak up. That’s the only way you’ll prevent its recurrence. This is a way of doing a good turn for a future victim. Simply dial 911, or if you are outside of the United States, find out your emergency number and keep it handy.
  • Be an organ donor. Sign up to become an organ donor in your state’s organ donor registry and you will not have died in vain. For more information, go here. Also, be sure to share your wishes with your loved ones so that there’s no conflict or confusion when the time comes.

There are so many ways to make a difference in this world, and you don’t have to spend any money doing so. If you can think of any other ways that I may have overlooked, please add them to the comments section. I do 13 of the things mentioned above, but doing even one will make the world a better place. Join me, won’t you?


Remember when you were young and willing? It’s never too late.

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Making a Difference When You’re Barely Making it Yourself

Quite regularly I open my drawbridge for million dollar yachts. More often than not, the owners are very courteous. More often than not, they wave at me as they pass through. That’s the extent of our connection.  Even so, at times like those I can’t help but think that just one day’s worth of interest on their savings account would solve so many of my problems. Like so many people these days,  I’m struggling. Really struggling. It’s not unusual for me to wake up in a cold sweat, wondering how I’m going to pay my rent or even feed myself from one month to the next. I’m just one financial crisis away from homelessness.  It’s the stuff of Hollywood to think that my personal million dollar yacht will someday come in, or that some man is going to swoop in and take me away from all this. It’s more realistic to realize that unless one of the million jobs I apply for comes through and it pays an amount that’s obscene enough to make up for the fact that I have nothing at all saved toward retirement, I will probably have to work until I drop dead, and that waking up in a cold sweat will be par for the course.

But a wise man once said to me that you can always look over your shoulder and see someone who is much worse off than yourself. I read somewhere that 75 percent of the planet makes due with one meal or less a day and no indoor plumbing. That being the case, I’m a very lucky woman indeed. You might say I’m one of the elite. So to whom should I give the interest from MY savings account? (Well, the answer to that is rather academic, since I usually earn about 2 dollars a year in interest, but you know what I mean, I’m sure.)

The good news is that there are lots of ways you can make a difference that won’t cost you a thing.

  • Kiva is a wonderful organization that gives microloans to people in third world countries. These loans are in 25 dollar increments. That might not sound like much, but to some people, it can make all the difference in the world. Recently, my 25 dollar loan to a woman in Mongolia allowed her to double her income and buy a winter home. And the most amazing thing is that she paid me back! Granted, you don’t earn interest with these loans, but what you do get is a boatload of good karma. It took me a couple of months to scrape together that 25 dollars, but I did it, and now she’s got shelter in the winter in Mongolia. I mean, honestly, can you think of a better way to use 25 dollars? Once the money gets paid back to me, I always turn around and loan it to someone else. I’ve been using that same 25 dollars, over and over again, since 2006. I’ve made 37 loans so far.
  • Give blood. It won’t cost you a thing but your time, and you could save someone’s life.
  • Become a marrow donor. Initially they just draw a vial of blood. If you are a match for someone, it becomes a bit more complicated of course, but again, you could save someone’s life.
  •  Register to be an organ donor. It’s not like you’ll miss those organs when you’re gone, right? But they could make all the difference in the world to someone else.  According to this website, 116, 624 people in America are waiting for organs RIGHT NOW.
  • Grow out your hair and then donate it. I have done this three times, and it makes me smile to think of a little girl with cancer or alopecia running around with a wig made of my hair, getting a boost of self-esteem at a very trying time in her life.  There are several organizations who will gladly take your donation, and I don’t want to show bias, so I just recommend that you Google “Hair Donation”
  • Look in your closet. If you haven’t worn something in the past year, chances are you don’t need it anymore. Donate it.  The person who buys it from them at a reduced price will be grateful, and the organization will benefit from the funds. Again, there are a ton of organizations that will take your items. Some will even come pick them up.
  • Volunteer your time. There are a million organizations out there that could use your help!   Here’s one resource to get you started.
  • Recycle. Helping the planet helps its inhabitants.
  • Support your local food bank with any extra food you have. Many food banks will even take the unwanted fruit from your trees, and vegetables from your garden,  but I’d suggest you ask ahead about that.
  • Instead of filling up our landfills with perfectly good stuff, post it on Freecycle! Chances are, there’s a neighbor who will be thrilled to take that item off your hands.­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­
  • Be a good listener. I know it sounds cheesy, but sometimes people just need to be heard, and that makes all the difference in the world.
  • Be a good neighbor. See that elderly woman struggling with her grocery bags? Go to it, man! It’s a small gesture for you, but it’s heroic for her.

See there? You can have an impact without spending a dime. What are you waiting for?