Major Scandal… Once Upon a Time

Several decades ago, before I was a bridgetender and was still an office drone, there was a major scandal at my place of work. It seems that the director of personnel was found in the supply closet with a secretary from another department. And both were married. Gasp! Aside from the fact that the head…

Several decades ago, before I was a bridgetender and was still an office drone, there was a major scandal at my place of work. It seems that the director of personnel was found in the supply closet with a secretary from another department. And both were married. Gasp!

Aside from the fact that the head of the personnel department, of all people, ought to know that there are certain plates on which one should not place one’s pickle, this got messy on a whole lot of other levels too. First of all, it could be perceived (although I honestly don’t think it was the case in this instance), that the secretary was attempting to garner a leg up, so to speak, on any promotions that might be in the offing. Second, this particular secretary had a very violent, aggressive husband, and no one was looking forward to seeing him come through the door, loaded for bear. Our geriatric security guard would not have been able to handle that.

After about three days in which this was the sole topic of conversation at the water cooler, the director of personnel resigned. He was trying to save the secretary’s job, but she was a bit of a hot head, and walked out in protest. One minute they were there (albeit in the supply closet), and the next minute, poof! Gone. No goodbyes, nothing.

This kind of made me sad. These were both very good workers and nice people. Why they chose to act so stupidly, unethically, and inappropriately is beyond me. But today’s scandals eventually turn into tomorrow’s vague memories. People have very short attention spans. It’s funny how importance is also impermanent.

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Perspective.

 

12 responses to “Major Scandal… Once Upon a Time”

  1. Dorothy Parker said it best–
    “As I grow older and older/ And totter toward the tomb,
    I find that I care less and less/ Who goes to bed with whom.”
    Although I agree that it’s tragic when an otherwise smart person lets their urges lead them into foolish or harmful deeds.
    So…change of subject…how many of our bridges have you gotten acquainted with yet, and what’s different from what you knew before?

    1. Ballard and University. Some policy differences, but basically a bridge is a bridge. 🙂

  2. Any place you work there is going to be a bit of scandal. LOL At least it was before your time.

    1. And I have a strict “stay out of the supply closet” rule. 🙂

  3. We should try to invent some new kind of scandal… that would be a challenge.

    1. Well, yes, because I’m so sick and tired of all the old ones. Except I fear the new ones will stink just as bad.
      Sometimes I find myself a bit curious about this or that gossip item, but I remind myself that there are a lot more interesting and profitable subjects to give my attention to. So my curiosity is mostly of the clean and non-morbid type. Mostly. It seems like there’s a lot of other folks that are more susceptible, and I suppose it’s a good thing their memories are so short.
      Except you’d think people would learn. Not to do such foolish things, and not to give them so much more attention than they deserve.

      1. I think it boils down to boredom. Both the doing stupid things and the paying attention to them. Boredom on both counts.

      2. Well, they call them scandals because they are scandalous… I mean, I try to come up with new ways of looking at things here, but I can’t change facts… usually… I do ignore them now and then… but… uh… yeah

      3. But why is a scandal less scandalous over time?

      4. People get bored

  4. People get bored with it, and a new one comes along. Folks who have real interests are less bored to start with, and less interested in social trivia.

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