On Being Number One

There’s no lonelier feeling on earth than the realization that no one considers you to be their top priority. Sadly a lot of us can say that. That’s why so many of us have pets. You just can’t beat having someone who is happy to see you when you get home. If you are somebody’s…

There’s no lonelier feeling on earth than the realization that no one considers you to be their top priority. Sadly a lot of us can say that. That’s why so many of us have pets. You just can’t beat having someone who is happy to see you when you get home.

If you are somebody’s number one, don’t take it for granted. It’s a precious gift. And I hate to say it, but speaking from experience, life is so incredibly fragile that that comfortable feeling could pop like a soap bubble when you least expect it. So if someone loves you, cherish that person. Show your appreciation. All the time.

In fact, now would be good. Right now. Get up from your computer and tell the person that you love most in the world that you love him or her. Because nothing else matters. If you won’t do it for yourself, do it for all of us who don’t have that gift right now. Because let me assure you that when you don’t have it, you ache for it.

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7 responses to “On Being Number One”

  1. Possibly your best ever. I have shared on Facebook and beyond. Sadly, there are many to whom this message would come too late. I had to be careful to whom I sent it because, like you, I know many people whose “Number One” status has expired. It is SUCH a gift and I am grateful I recognize and cherish it. Let us not forget, it is also a gift we can give.

    1. A gift we can give… very, very good point, Vicky. I’m going to have to sit with that thought for a while and let it sink in. Thank you for sharing it. And yes, you are one of the lucky ones. Say hello to Larry for me. 🙂

  2. awww… how sweet… you know that monkey ripped the pigeon to shreds just moments after the picture was taken, right?

    1. Gasp! Noooooo! Now I need therapy.

      1. Don’t be. I’ll be sending you the bill. 🙂

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