Mourning the Loss of My Citizenship

There’s this gaping hole where my freedom used to be.

The one year anniversary of the repeal of Roe vs. Wade was on June 23, 2023. I’m fortunate to live in a blue state, and also fortunate enough to be well beyond my reproductive years, so some might say I have no skin in the reproductive rights game. But it’s the principle of the thing.

I no longer feel like an American. The fact that a chunk of my body has been deemed beyond my control is unconscionable. With it went my right to make health decisions or plan my future. There’s this gaping hole where my freedom used to be. Men would never understand unless they were told that henceforth someone else would be determining where their sperm would be going, if anywhere at all

I don’t usually share things that I’ve seen on social media on this blog, but the following poem and the accompanying art work really moved me. I wanted to send its message even further afield. The only other thing I have to say is, ladies, I hope the fact that I’m posting this the day before what many still consider to be Independence Day is not lost on you. Please vote.

"Right to Life" by Marge Piercy

A woman is not a basket you place
your buns in to keep them warm. Not a brood
hen you can slip duck eggs under.
Not the purse holding the coins of your
descendants till you spend them in wars.
Not a bank where your genes gather interest
and interesting mutations in the tainted
rain, any more than you are.

You plant corn and you harvest
it to eat or sell. You put the lamb
in the pasture to fatten and haul it in to
butcher for chops. You slice the mountain
in two for a road and gouge the high plains
for coal and the waters run muddy for
miles and years. Fish die but you do not
call them yours unless you wished to eat them.

Now you legislate mineral rights in a woman.
You lay claim to her pastures for grazing,
fields for growing babies like iceberg
lettuce. You value children so dearly
that none ever go hungry, none weep
with no one to tend them when mothers
work, none lack fresh fruit,
none chew lead or cough to death and your
orphanages are empty. Every noon the best
restaurants serve poor children steaks.
At this moment at nine o’clock a partera
is performing a table top abortion on an
unwed mother in Texas who can’t get
Medicaid any longer. In five days she will die
of tetanus and her little daughter will cry
and be taken away. Next door a husband
and wife are sticking pins in the son
they did not want. They will explain
for hours how wicked he is,
how he wants discipline.

We are all born of woman, in the rose
of the womb we suckled our mother’s blood
and every baby born has a right to love
like a seedling to sun. Every baby born
unloved, unwanted, is a bill that will come
due in twenty years with interest, an anger
that must find a target, a pain that will
beget pain. A decade downstream a child
screams, a woman falls, a synagogue is torched,
a firing squad is summoned, a button
is pushed and the world burns.

I will choose what enters me, what becomes
of my flesh. Without choice, no politics,
no ethics lives. I am not your cornfield,
not your uranium mine, not your calf
for fattening, not your cow for milking.
You may not use me as your factory.
Priests and legislators do not hold shares
in my womb or my mind.
This is my body. If I give it to you
I want it back. My life
is a non-negotiable demand.
Liz Darling, “…and you will be like God,” 2014
https://www.lizdarlingart.com/portals…

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